I can’t just believe some ladies of nowadays are not attractive enough to some guys.
“As a lady, while you may be doing everything in your power to attract a guy, it may surprise you to learn that some of your actions and behaviours can actually have the opposite effect on any guy you meet, you may not even realise that you’re acting in a way that drives men away from you when all you are trying to do is draw them toward you”.
“In order to take control of the situation and truly attract the right guys, avoid these 8 things and you’ll hopefully grab his attention rather than be left empty-handed”.
1. Wearing a ton of makeup: “You may think that loading up on foundation, concealer, eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara, lipstick, and blush (to name a few) makes you look most attractive, but it may surprise you to learn that piling on the makeup is not appealing to guys”.
2. Being a gossip: “It might seem fun to share the latest rumours, scandals, and stories involving the lives of your friends, family, and coworkers with a guy, but it might surprise you to learn that being a gossip is a major turn off, while your intentions may be to try to open the lines of communication with him and keep him in the loop, it’s important to recognize that giving him the lowdown on other’s sordid deeds actually makes you come across as having low self-esteem”.
3. Being excessively confident: “While having high self-esteem is a quality that men find highly attractive in women, it’s important to understand that there’s a fine line between being confident and being conceited and while you should definitely believe in yourself, be proud of your accomplishments, and be happy about what you have to offer, you should also keep in mind that showing off is a major turn off.”
4. Badmouthing your ex: “You may think that bad-mouthing your ex around a new guy is a good decision, but this kind of negative behavior actually makes you look bad instead while your intentions may be to show a guy how much you’re over your last beau and that he has nothing to worry about when it comes to living up to the men you’ve been with previously, constantly criticizing your ex isn’t attractive”.
5. Being a party girl: “You may think that being the kind of gal who’s down for whatever, goes out non-stop, and is always looking for a good time is the way to attract a man, but being an out-of-control party animal can come back to bite you, men are certainly interested in women who are confident, outgoing, and who like to have fun, but guys will draw the line when it comes to women who throw caution to the wind and are always looking to party hard no matter the circumstances”.
Always agreeing with him, believe it or not, always agreeing with a man can be a major turn off.
Playing hard to get, playing hard to get is an easy way to strike out with a guy.
Being a damsel in distress.
Source : Naijaloaded
Source : Naijaloaded
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