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BEIJING, May 17 (Xinhua) -- The Ministry of Public Security(MPS) announced Wednesday that 1,274 missing children had beenfound over the past year following the launch of an app in May2016.

During the period, 1,317 updates on missing children were postedon the app, and the children found include 40 who had beenabducted, 750 who had run away from home, 192 who had been lost, 75who died by drowning, as well as 29 who were murdered, according tothe MPS.

The app helps to ensure efficient sharing of information andcollaboration between police in different regions, and encourageswitnesses to report the whereabouts of missing or traffickedchildren, the MPS said.

Users near the site where a child disappeared receive pushnotifications, including photos and descriptions. The scope ofthese push notifications will be expanded over time.

An updated version of the platform that went live on Wednesdayhas expanded its reach through cooperation with seven other mediaplatforms, such as an emergency broadcasting center under ChinaNational Radio, a news app from Tencent and Yidao Yongche.

So far, the MPS app has formed a cooperative partnership with 40new media and mobile applications, including Taobao, Baidu and QQ.Enditem

Ojclemenites!! Checkout Some Surprising Things Guys Find Unattractive In Ladies

I can’t just believe some ladies of nowadays are not attractive enough to some guys.

“As a lady, while you may be doing everything in your power to attract a guy, it may surprise you to learn that some of your actions and behaviours can actually have the opposite effect on any guy you meet, you may not even realise that you’re acting in a way that drives men away from you when all you are trying to do is draw them toward you”.

“In order to take control of the situation and truly attract the right guys, avoid these 8 things and you’ll hopefully grab his attention rather than be left empty-handed”.

1. Wearing a ton of makeup: “You may think that loading up on foundation, concealer, eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara, lipstick, and blush (to name a few) makes you look most attractive, but it may surprise you to learn that piling on the makeup is not appealing to guys”.

2. Being a gossip: “It might seem fun to share the latest rumours, scandals, and stories involving the lives of your friends, family, and coworkers with a guy, but it might surprise you to learn that being a gossip is a major turn off, while your intentions may be to try to open the lines of communication with him and keep him in the loop, it’s important to recognize that giving him the lowdown on other’s sordid deeds actually makes you come across as having low self-esteem”.

3. Being excessively confident: “While having high self-esteem is a quality that men find highly attractive in women, it’s important to understand that there’s a fine line between being confident and being conceited and while you should definitely believe in yourself, be proud of your accomplishments, and be happy about what you have to offer, you should also keep in mind that showing off is a major turn off.”

4. Badmouthing your ex: “You may think that bad-mouthing your ex around a new guy is a good decision, but this kind of negative behavior actually makes you look bad instead while your intentions may be to show a guy how much you’re over your last beau and that he has nothing to worry about when it comes to living up to the men you’ve been with previously, constantly criticizing your ex isn’t attractive”.

5. Being a party girl: “You may think that being the kind of gal who’s down for whatever, goes out non-stop, and is always looking for a good time is the way to attract a man, but being an out-of-control party animal can come back to bite you, men are certainly interested in women who are confident, outgoing, and who like to have fun, but guys will draw the line when it comes to women who throw caution to the wind and are always looking to party hard no matter the circumstances”.

Always agreeing with him, believe it or not, always agreeing with a man can be a major turn off.

Playing hard to get, playing hard to get is an easy way to strike out with a guy.

Being a damsel in distress.

Source : Naijaloaded

If You Are the First Son of Your Family you need to read this

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8 Struggles You Can Relate to if You Are the First Son of Your Family

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There is no denying the fact that in Nigeria – a society organised on patriarchal lines, the title of “ the first son” comes with a lot of perks and major respect. Parents aspire to have sons, as such first sons receive a tremendous amount of love and attention.

However, while being the first son may seem like the best birth-order placement any Nigerian child could ask for, no one rides on the struggle bus more than this group of people. Here are the ten of the biggest hardships first-born male children in many Nigeria families can truly relate to on a deep level.

The pressure to be successful and fulfil all your parents’ long lost dreams
As a first child, you endure the eternal pressure from your parents to be successful. They view you as a reflection of their abilities as parents, and want to feel they are valuable. They do everything in their power to make sure you at least surpass their achievements or attain the feats they were never able to achieve in their own time.
Yes, they invest heavily in you: they will enroll you in the best schools, while your sibling manage the one on your street. They will save or even sell a piece of land to send you abroad and more; but in the end, you may be forced to live a life that you did not wish for, pursuing passions that are not yours and feeling completely unfulfilled.

You always get the largest share of everything
This sounds enticing. Sure when food is shared, you get served the largest and most sumptuous plate. At family events you get to sit at the high table; but, you also bear the largest share of responsibilities and you are expected to donate the largest share during family contributions – whether you earn the most amongst you siblings or not. No matter how you try, you cannot escape the responsibilities, because…well, you are the first son.

You feel like your mother’s second husband
When people suggest that first sons have a weird bond with their mothers, you keep mute, because while you don’t want to admit it, you understand exactly what they are trying to say. She comes to you for advice on how to run her business, handle your siblings, deal with your father and even resolve quarrels with her friends or extended family members.
She gets jealous sometimes when you talk about your girlfriend or wife. She compels you to plans activities with her and drags you to places you wouldn’t normally go on your own. You can’t say “No” because she is your mother, you love her and actually you enjoy her company. But on the days she demands that you do certain things for her that she could have easily done for herself, you go back home and silently question your bond, wondering if perhaps you are a momma’s boy after all.

The pressure to marry and give grandchildren to carry on the family name 
Your friends are flexing and enjoying their 20s but from as early as 22, your parents are already introducing you to their friends’ daughters and showing you pictures, asking you which of them you would like to meet and marry. You cannot bring any girl home, because the moment your parents lay eyes on them, they become “our wife” and you cannot break up with them again. In the case where you get to 30 and you are still single, they start to send you prayers and you mother calls you to cry. She wants to know why you do not want to give her a grandchild to carry on the family name.

You’re expected to be responsible and set a good example for your siblings
The best years of your life become the years you existed without siblings; immediately after they arrived, your life became almost regimented. Not only did you now have other endure their excesses, your parents make you the unofficial leader of the pack. You’re expected to do the right thing to do without hesitation, otherwise when the siblings eventually make mistakes, it is blamed on you – for not guiding them right.
You cannot stay out late, you cannot fail your exams in peace… and even when you are a full-blown adult or married, your business cannot fail. You still cannot engage in random activities or even quarrel with your wife in peace, because… “what example are you setting for your younger ones?”

People often accuse you of being bossy
You have grown up being told what to do by your parents, and so you subconsciously believe that bossing people around gets things done quicker and better. Also, you have lived the most of your life being the boss: representing your dad at family meetings; running the family house when the parents are away; advising and telling your siblings what to do. It’s understandable that being bossy becomes your reflex move.
You are confident, assertive and even a little domineering. You may not even know that you get bossy at times. You just notice that people often ask you questions like: “Are you the first son?” out of the blues or they nod their head and say “ahh” when you tell them that you are the oldest child.

You don’t have an older brother to seek advice from
You have to figure out life and the intricate things about becoming a man by yourself, because there is no other male to explain it to you. Sure, you have your father, but there are things you just cannot tell him. He is probably from a generation way older and farther back than yours. Even if you go to him, he may not be of much help. You end up leaning on your male friends when you can.

You are always in the middle of problems and arguments between your parents and other siblings
Somehow, you become the unofficial magistrate of the family. Your parents come to you to solve their disagreements and settle their squabbles. Your younger ones also report other siblings to you. The worst part of being placed in this position is that even when you are certain you have given a fair judgment, the other party accuses you of being partial.

#LeStruggleIs Real!

So, dear readers, can you think of anything else that first sons have to deal with?

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Guys, Get In!! See The 11 Places To Touch Your Woman And Drive Her Wild (18+ Only)

Incorporating touching these places into foreplay and sex, or just giving her some pleasure after a hard day, will definitely earn you some points.

We all know which female body parts men most frequently like to explore, but there is more to her than a vagina, breasts and butt. The largest amount of nerve endings may be packed into those areas, but she has pleasure sensors all over her body, and getting her in the mood may be as easy as stimulating some of these often-neglected parts. Incorporating touching these places into foreplay and sex, or just giving her some pleasure after a hard day, will definitely earn you some brownie points.

1. Hair

Maintaining their gorgeous locks isn’t the only reason women go to their hairstylists so often. The process of wash, cut, color, and styling can actually be quite a stress reliever. Running your hands gently through her hair is a surefire way to send tingles down her spine. Let your fingers massage circles from her temples to the nape of her neck and she’ll be putty in your hands.

2. Pelvis

Concentrating some affection on her pelvis is a great idea; however, you’ll have to resist the urge to slip down to her vagina while you’re so close. Like teasing her inner thighs, kissing and licking around her pelvis will excite her until she’s begging for more. Prolong the sensation by leaving the region to focus on another body part for a while.

3. Inner thighs

Touching her inner thighs without venturing into the vaginal area will make for an excellent tease that is sure to get her revved up. Use your hands and mouth to caress and kiss the insides of her thighs, getting excruciatingly close to her ultimate pleasure spot, but pulling back before going all the way.

4. Feet

Pulp Fiction taught us that rubbing the feet of another man’s wife may be an offense punishable by being thrown out a window, so the sensual appeal of a foot massage is obvious. There are few better ways to help her relax than to give her feet a good rub, especially if her job requires her to be on them all day. Do it right and grab some massage oil or lotion. Don’t forget to pay some attention to her toes, ankles and the sides of her feet too. Some women really enjoy having their toes sucked, but others find it repulsive, so asking first is a good idea before putting them in your mouth.

5. Ear Lobes

Touching, kissing and even lightly biting the earlobes of your woman will up the bliss factor for her. These delicate, soft lobes are very sensitive and most women thoroughly enjoy the sensation of having a man’s lips on them. You can nibble around the outside of the rest of her ear as well, but for courtesy’s sake avoid jamming your tongue inside her ear.

6. Palms of her hands

People often use their hands as tools to please their partners, but rarely do they consider the pleasure potential of stimulating the hands themselves. The palm of a woman’s hand is an innocuous spot to focus a little attention on without making people around you uncomfortable. Tracing your finger along her palm will give her delightful shivers and make you appear sensitive and attentive.

7. Behind her knees

This area is one that most men don’t think of when trying to stimulate a woman, but it is, in fact, quite sensitive. Gently caressing the back of the knee under her skirt while the two of you are in a public place will make her ready to get busy once you get home. Don’t forget to pay some more attention to this special spot once you’re alone too.

8. Small of her back

The best way to guide your woman through a crowd is to place your hand against the small of her back. This smallgesture shows that you feel protective of her without being too pushy like an arm around the shoulder might be. When you’re alone, kissing or licking down her spine to end up with a kiss on the small of her back will get her heart racing.

9. Clavicle

A well-defined clavicle, or collarbone, can be very sexy on a woman. Why not show your appreciation for its beauty with your touch and kiss? Pay attention to this body part while she’s still fully clothed, unbuttoning her shirt just enough to reveal the clavicle and no further. You can always come back to it once the clothes have disappeared as well to remind her of the anticipation it created when you started there.

10. Nape of her back

Once you get to the nape of her neck, place a few light kisses there. In ancient Japan, the back of a woman’s neck was seen as very attractive by men since it was one of the few places not covered by clothing. In modern times, the nape of the neck is often neglected in favor of more obvious pleasure centers, but never underestimate the power of gentle touches and kisses from her hairline to her shoulders.

11. Everywhere else

Every inch of her body is covered with nerve endings that could be stimulated, but that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t have some no-go places. Some women can’t stand to have their faces touched, while others find it unbearable if their hands are tickled. As you explore, you’ll learn which places your touch has the best effect on and which you should avoid.

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[A MUST READ] Ways To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

No one ever said long distance relationships were easy, but they don’t have to be so hard either. They don’t have to ruin your relationship; neither do they have to be the end of it.

Distance makes the heart grow fonder and sincerely that’s one of the truest statements in existence.

Stay in Contact

A lot of people miss the point of this and believe this means you have to talk every single day the two of you are apart, but the truth is it depends. What are you and your partner comfortable with? Talk about it. The point of staying in contact is to nurture the emotional connection between the two of you.

You and your partner should define what ‘staying in contact’ is for the two of you and how best to do it based on what the two of you are comfortable with.

Remember That Your Partner is Human

Distance makes the heart grow fonder, but unfortunately you grow so fond of your partner that you begin to idealize him/her and forget that they are human. No one is perfect, they are going to have tough days and might not be able to talk to you as much or as enthusiastically as they once did.

Don’t be so afraid of this and don’t think the relationship is over because of this. Be understanding, be supportive, be a listening ear and be there for them. Give them what they need, even if what they need is sometime on their own to deal with things.

Don’t Be Afraid

There is no relationship that can survive without trust. Honestly, a long distance relationship is a true test of trust because in that period you have to believe in the person you say you love and trust them to be good.

Pray for them if it makes you feel more comfortable (that is, if you are the religious type) but by all means learn to trust them. Stop thinking every change in their attitude, voice or mein is because they are tired of you or the relationship. Such fear isn’t good for your blood pressure, heart rate and general well-being.

Visit Each Other

If there are opportunities for the two of you to visit each other, then do so as often as you can but it should be as agreed between the two of you. If there is no opportunity for the two of you to visit each other, then you two should do things together at the same time. You two can do so over apps or softwares like Facetime, Skype etc. This is done to promote bonding and basically just to see each other. This largely helps to deal with loneliness in the relationship on both ends.

Make Each Other Feel Special

The lovely thing about long distance relationships aside the fact that they can make you grow fonder, is that they help you become more attentive to the little things in your relationship. Just doing little things like surprising your partner with a sweet message, ordering something nice for your partner online etc. can help you make each other feel very special and keep the fire burning in your relationship.

Manage Your Expectations

As much as you remain positive, also be realistic. Long distance relationships can fail, then again what relationship can’t fail? You should understand that every kind of relationship needs work, dedication and attention, so you should invest these in your relationship.

Prepare yourself for bumps along the road, but never fear them. You can talk about it with your partner and prepare yourself to avoid or navigate through possible bumps along the way. In the end, the challenges can contribute to a better relationship; it just depends on how the two of you manage it.

Source : JumiaTravels

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